An Independent Son always Remains Dependent!
Why are you still sleeping? Bring some milk!
Oh, I forgot the Juice, Come-on Go again-
I am tired of this useless boy!
Thank God you are back from Office; drop me at your aunt’s home.
What!!!!! You have bought a new cell phone! Shame on you-Kabhi Ghar pe bhe Kharch karlia Karo
Formerly, parenting was the best routine to get the final destination of Happiness as a complete Family. Not every parent is the same, but the paper is about the changing trend of most of the parent’s behavior. Some children remain careless towards their parents. But, some kids even do not question in front of their parents.
Unfortunately, they are being ignored and pressurized psychologically. These caring and sensitive children do not understand the worst and injustice happening to them. Monastery, there was the care and sense of responsibility for those susceptible children. Even after marriage, the sons who remained jobless supported by their parents. Moreover, there were times when unemployed sons get married, and parents take care of both son and daughter-in-law.
Surprisingly, Parenting has changed today!
In our days, most of the children become independent in their teen ages. Some earn less and some more. Amazingly, these independent children remain dependent throughout their lives! It is because now parents have started putting pressure on children to make and spend on the home. On the other side, parents today ask to get married to their conditions else. There will be no space for their son at home. Interestingly, a son who has never saved something for his future can never oppose the conditions.
But, this is how we imagine a Caring Parent!
— A caring parent will be advising the son to earn and save some money.
— A loving parent will teach son to have a more substantial base in this competitive world where there is no guarantee to have a permanent job or relationship.
— Kind parents will support a son financially as well to get married and build a better family life together.
Today, parents seem conscious of their son’s earnings. They seem anxious if the son is saving the money and not giving them. Indeed, an independent working son fears while buying something. Parents have their homes, pension, and hobbies. But, a son who earns will be living in a house with conditions else he will throw out. It is funny but real; sons are not allowed to make their bases stronger rather be the one who always remains like an Inflated Economy. Thus, his financial health persists unstable. Today, a son hardly becomes able to buy a home and get stable.
Hence, an Independent son always remains Dependent!