Better Half or Better TimePass — What Today’s Commitments Reflect?
The word Commitment has lost its real spirit in terms of today’s relationships. Commitment has been limited to entertain the partner and fulfill the desires no matter right or wrong. Commitment is to go for parties and giving space. In short, at the moment, Commitment is to be the “Time-Pass”! You will have to pass my time while praising my positive side, beauty, and stating how innocent and pure I am! But, you are not allowed to hit the point where I am wrong or doing something not acceptable — BIG NO!
Every Tom, Dick, and Harry, due to social media, has many options to choose from. Even the boy or girl who is not used to such social media does have the options through parents to get married. But, again, the response of everyone today is to equate the self-respect with so-called unnecessary attitude.
Remember, there is a big difference between Self-Respect and Unnecessary Attitude!
Commitment in any relationship gives the essence of accepting the weaker side of a person and the support while enjoying the fun time. Unfortunately, this is not true today. Thus, commitment is all about working harder to build to the better bonding and not verbose promises-
You are Good until You Look Good, You are Good Until You Pay Good, and Of course You are better until You Praise Better-
In short, today, commitment is not to have the Better-Half but to have Better Time-Pass Partner.
Subsequently, the commitment works until you fulfill above-stated points and where you started pointing out something your partner is not ready to listen,
Then,
Hey! Look we need to break-up as I can’t handle all this any longer.
This is the time to transform ourselves! We will not but in present, we have to understand the meaning of commitment we do with our relations. The commitment is about respecting the words we don’t wish to hear about ourselves if our partner is caring. A caring person will always hit the weaker (negative) side of a partner to make him or her stronger while beating the negativity.
Besides, we must not rush for the person we get attracted to and starting commitments. There is a need to understand when a person is supportive and committed then eventually, it will be reflecting in his or her behavior. So, there is a need to build a better bond with a particular person and but not hurry to make relationships and then getting hurt.
Let’s work on building better Bonding and Not just the Wordy Promises!
